2. ChemSex Addiction Treatment
I'm Alex Kapnek, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) based in Philadelphia. My approach to chemsex recovery is trauma-informed, harm-reduction oriented, and built specifically for LGBTQ+ clients.
I understand that chemsex often isn't just about drugs — it's frequently connected to shame, trauma, loneliness, internalized homophobia, or a search for intimacy and belonging. Effective recovery means addressing those roots, not just the surface behaviour.
My work draws on:
EMDR — to process the trauma or painful experiences that often underlie problematic chemsex
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) — to identify triggers and build new coping strategies
Harm reduction — meeting you where you are, without judgment
Sex-positive care — supporting your sexuality and wellbeing, not shaming it
I offer both individual therapy and the only ChemSex recovery group in Philadelphia, providing peer connection alongside personal therapeutic work.
What is ChemSex?
Chemsex — using substances like crystal meth, GHB, or mephedrone to enhance sexual experiences — can quickly shift from recreational to compulsive. If you're finding it hard to have sex without substances, or if your chemsex use is affecting your health, relationships, or sense of self, therapy can help.I offer a non-judgmental, affirming space where we can explore what's driving the pattern and what you actually want for yourself. Many people dealing with chemsex addiction also carry significant shame — about their sexuality, their use, or both. My approach is grounded in reducing shame, not adding to it.We'll work together to understand the emotional and relational factors behind compulsive chemsex use, build healthier coping strategies, and develop a more grounded and fulfilling sense of connection to sex and substances.This work is LGBTQ+ affirming and sex-positive. You deserve support that meets you where you are.
ChemSex Recovery Therapy in Philadelphia
If ChemSex — or party and play (PnP) — has started to feel less like a choice and more like something you can't stop, you're not alone. What you're experiencing is a recognized pattern that responds well to the right kind of support including individual and group therapy.
At Metamorphosis Therapy Center in Philadelphia, I provide specialised, LGBTQ+-affirming therapy for gay and bisexual men who want to change their relationship with chemsex — on their own terms, without shame.
What are the Risks?
Chemsex drugs change how you feel and behave. When you mix them with sex you increase your risk of HIV and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
The drugs used in chemsex also have other health risks. It is easy to take too much GHB. This can cause you to ‘pass out’, leaving you more vulnerable to sexual assault. There have even been cases of deaths resulting from interactions between ritonavir and crystal meth.
Chemsex drugs change how you feel, sometimes in unwanted ways. They can make you confused, paranoid or frightened and in some cases you can lose touch with reality and have very convincing hallucinations.
It is also common for people to have a ‘comedown’ after a chemsex session where they feel depressed or low.
Signs That ChemSex May Be Causing Problems
You might be in the right place if:
You're using more drugs, more often, than you planned
You find it difficult or unappealing to have sex without substances
You're experiencing anxiety, depression, or paranoia after sessions ("comedowns")
Chemsex is affecting your sleep, work, relationships, or HIV/PrEP adherence
You've tried to stop or cut down and haven't been able to
You feel shame or secrecy around your use but can't see a way out
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to want to stop completely to come to therapy?
No. Many clients come in uncertain about what they want. We work with wherever you are — including harm reduction goals rather than abstinence, if that's right for you.
Is this therapy LGBTQ+-affirming?
Fully. This practice was built for the LGBTQ+ community. You don't need to explain your identity, relationship structure, or sexuality. That context is already understood.
Do you work with HIV-positive clients?
Yes. I'm experienced in the specific challenges that HIV-positive gay men can face around chemsex, including stigma, medication adherence, and sexual health.
Do you offer telehealth?
Yes — I offer both in-person therapy in Philadelphia and telehealth sessions for clients across Pennsylvania.
What's the difference between individual therapy and the chemsex recovery group?
Individual therapy is private, one-to-one work tailored to your specific history and goals. The chemsex recovery group adds peer connection and community, which many clients find essential to lasting recovery.